How To Stop Your Baby Waking Early in the Morning!

 

Here’s an ugly truth of parenting that no one tells you until you’re in the “new baby club.” Babies like waking up early in the morning! And by early I mean 6-7 am. 

In your former childless life, waking at 7 am may have felt cruel and unusual. But now that you’re several months into parenthood (or longer) you’d kill to get up at 7 am everyday! The only problem is your baby is waking at 5 am. 

One of the most common questions I get from exhausted parents is “How can I get my baby to sleep past 5 am?” And that’s a reasonable request. Getting your baby sleeping until 8 am everyday isn’t so reasonable.

And that’s because babies naturally love early bedtimes and early mornings. I know, it’s hard news to take. But the sooner you accept it, the sooner you can move forward with realistic expectations. 

To be clear, let’s define night wakings as any waking before 6 am. And consider an “acceptable” morning wake up time to be anytime after 6 – 6:30 am.

After many years helping tired parents get their babies sleeping great, I have a few tricks up my sleeve to help your stop baby waking at 5 am. Consider this to be your definitive guide to stopping your baby waking up too early in the morning. 

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RELATED: Here’s my guide on stopping your toddler’s early wakings

 

How To Stop Your Baby Waking Early in the Morning!

 

Tip #1: Blackout baby’s bedroom

Tip #2: Use white noise

Tip #3: Find the ideal bedtime

Tip #4: Prevent overtiredness at bedtime

Tip #5: Avoid too much (or too little) daytime sleep

Tip #6: No morning nap before 8 am.

Tip #7: Teach your baby to fall asleep independently

Tip #8: Allow no fun before 6 am

Tip #9: Rule out hunger

 

 

Tip #1: Blackout baby’s bedroom

Light is a strong environmental cue that tells our brains to be awake. Any amount of sunlight coming through baby’s bedroom window can be detected by his eyes and send the signal for him to wake. This is exactly what you don’t want at 5 am.

You want your baby’s bedroom to be in total darkness so he doesn’t get any cues to wake at this painfully early hour.

An easy fix for this is to 100% black out your baby’s bedroom. Cover the windows with aluminum foil or cardboard. (You can hide this behind decorative curtains.) Is this super tacky? Yep. But I’d choose “tacky window decor” any day over habitually waking at 5 am. I’ve had many moms tell me these inexpensive blackout films work great too.

We all have different opinions on how dark a bedroom is, so I came up with the “hand test” so you know if your baby’s bedroom is sufficiently darkened.

Here’s how the “hand test” works:

  • Go into baby’s bedroom in the middle of day.
  • Turn off the lights and close the curtains.
  • Then wave your hand 2 feet in front of your face.
  • If you can immediately see your hand, the room is too bright!

The room needs to be so dark that you’re tripping over furniture, even in the middle of the day!

 

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Tip #2: Use white noise

White noise masks sudden noises that might wake your baby like an older sibling, barking dog, or the garbage truck at 5 am. Most of us sleep better with ambient noise and babies are no different.

In fact, research shows that people of all ages sleep deeper and longer when using white noise. A simple sound machine like this one will do.

To prevent baby waking up too early in the morning, you need to play white noise all night long. That’s because your baby’s sleep is lightest from 4-6 am. So it’s easier for him to be woken by an outside noise. Plus, it’s harder for him to fall back asleep at this hour because it’s so close to morning.

Some parents worry that their baby will become dependent on white noise or that it’s not good for them.

White noise can be considered a sleep association because it’s something your baby associates with sleeping. But that doesn’t mean it’s bad!

It’s an “independent” sleep association, like a sleep sack or a crib. It’s something your baby associates with sleeping. But because it doesn’t require your direct assistance throughout the night, it’s a good thing!

I recommend using white noise for your child’s first several years, because it helps them sleep so well! Especially if you want to get your baby to sleep past 5 am. You can wean off white noise whenever you want. (I recommend between 2-4 years.)

Weaning off white noise is pretty simple. Just turn down the volume each night until it’s off. In all my years helping families, I’ve never heard of “white noise dependency” in older kids. Plus, it’s completely safe.

 

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Tip #3: Find the ideal bedtime

Everyone has an innate bedtime that works best for them. This bedtime is based on their circadian rhythm or the ‘body clock.’ 

When bedtime is in tune with your baby’s natural desire to sleep, she will accept sleep easier because her body is ready for it. Working with families for many years has taught me that babies sleep deeper and longer at night when bedtime is early. 

Many parents think that a late bedtime will result in their baby waking up later in the morning. That may work for us adults, but it doesn’t for young children. In fact, it backfires! 

Forget everything you know about sleep. Baby sleep is counterintuitive. What works for us adults doesn’t work for babies. That’s because they’re wired differently. Children with late or inconsistent bedtimes sleep worse at night and wake earlier in the morning! 

Let’s clarify what “bedtime” means. Bedtime is the time that your baby actually falls asleep. 

It’s not when you go into the bedroom to start your bedtime routine, and it’s not when you place your baby in bed. 

Bedtime is the time your child actually falls asleep. 

In general, 6:30-7:30 pm bedtime works best for babies and toddlers.

 

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Blacking out windows, playing white noise and changing baby’s bedtime are all pretty easy steps to take. The next tips involve tweaking your baby’s schedule, behavior changes and some trial and error.

 

Tip #4: Prevent overtiredness at bedtime

Your baby has a biological need to sleep often. I talk a lot about “awake times” when helping babies learn to sleep well. Awake times are simply the amount of time your baby is awake between sleeps. 

The reason why awake times are so important is that they prevent your little one from becoming too overtired. Many parents think an overtired baby will fall asleep easily and sleep later in the morning. But remember, baby sleep is counterintuitive!

An overtired baby fights sleep, wakes more often and wakes earlier in the morning. (I’ve seen it hundreds of times.) 

To prevent overtiredness at bedtime, make sure your baby’s bedtime is both age-appropriate (from #3 above) and their awake times stay within these recommendations.

Awake times for all ages are:

  • Newborn: 30-90 mins
  • 7-15 weeks: 1-2 hours
  • 4-5 months: 1.5-2.5 hours
  • 6-8 months: 2-3 hours
  • 9-12 months: 2.5-3.5 hours
  • Toddler taking 2 naps: 3-4 hours
  • Toddler taking 1 nap 4-5.5 hours

*For example, your 7 month old’s bedtime should be no later than 3 hours after waking from their last nap.

 

Tip #5: Avoid too much (or too little) daytime sleep

 

Don’t let this overwhelm you, but your baby needs to nap “just the right amount” of hours everyday so he can sleep well at night (and later in the morning.)

If your baby doesn’t nap well during the day, he’ll be overtired at bedtime. And we learned in tip #4 that an overtired baby will continue waking early in the morning. 

On the flip side, if your baby tries to catch up on lost sleep and sleep most of the day he won’t be tired enough to sleep past sunrise.

 

So make sure you baby’s total combined nap hours fall within these recommendations: 

0-2 months: See my sleep guides for newborns and 2 month olds

3-4 months: 2.5 – 4 hours

5-12 months: 2 – 3 hours

For toddler recommendations, see my guide on toddlers waking early.

 

Tip #6: No morning nap before 8 am

A baby that wakes at 5 am is usually ready for a nap by 7 am, right? The problem with super early naps is that they reinforce early wakings. And this keeps your early waking vicious cycle going.

You need to gently push your baby’s sleep schedule later, and part of this is avoiding naps before 8 am.

We do this slowly to give your baby time to adapt. If your baby’s first nap usually falls before 8 am, start moving the nap later by 15 minutes every 2 days until you get to 8 am. 

This may make baby’s first awake time of the day be longer than recommended. So keep all other awake times within the acceptable range from tip #4 above. 

Your baby will be tired, especially if she’s been awake since 4 am. But this subtle shift in the timing of naps helps baby’s body clock adapt to waking later. 

 

 

Tip #7: Teach your baby to fall asleep independently

The way that your baby falls asleep at bedtime is the way she needs to fall back to sleep each time she wakes at night. 

This is the basis of sleep training. Once your little one can go into the crib awake and fall asleep on their own (without your help or presence) she’’ll be able to resettle herself back to sleep each time she stirs during the night.

And remember, any waking before 6 am is a night waking. 

The trouble with babies waking too early (4-6 am) is that it’s much harder for them to fall back to sleep at this hour. Sleep is lightest at this time of the night, and even if you try the “usual tricks” of feeding, rocking or holding, your baby may not be tired enough to fall back to sleep. 

Your presence and comforting may actually backfire and end up energizing your baby at that dreadfully early hour.

There’s good news, though. Once your baby knows how to fall asleep on her own (and does this every night at bedtime and for any night wakings) it becomes much easier for her to resettle herself at 4-5 am. 

In fact, most parents I work with tell me their baby’s early wakings disappeared once their little one was falling asleep independently every night. 

Let that motivate you to start sleep training and get your baby falling asleep independently! (If you’d like my help and a step-by-step guide on this, you should join us in 21 Days to Peace & Quiet.)

Here’s one critical tip to ensure you do this right. Your baby’s eyes should be open when she goes into the crib to settle herself to sleep. If she’s too drowsy, it simply won’t work.

 

Tip #8: Allow no fun before 6 am

Let me just say, there is zero judgment from me if you pull baby into your bed or play cartoons at 5 am. I know how it feels to be desperate for just 30 minutes more sleep. 

But here’s the thing. Babies can’t tell time. So if your little one gets used to nursing, coming into your bed or screen time during early wakings, he will continue waking early. In fact, most babies start waking at 4 am. Then 3 am. Then midnight, and crying until parents give in out of desperation. 

As you may have guessed, the way to fix this is to treat a 5 am waking the same way you treat a midnight waking. You wouldn’t take baby out of the crib, make a coffee and start your day, right? So don’t do this at 5 am either.

It can be difficult the first few nights of making new changes, but it’s imperative you treat ALL wakings before 6 am as night wakings. 

  • If your baby doesn’t get fed during the night, don’t start feeding at 5 am. (Especially if your baby never falls back asleep after this feed.)
  • If your baby falls asleep on his own during other parts of the night, don’t start helping him back to sleep at 5 am. 
  • If you don’t play cartoons at 2 am, then don’t play them at 5 am either.

Babies need consistency. It’s the only way they learn and adapt to new sleep routines. When your baby understands that every night waking results in the same outcome (baby stays in bed and fall back asleep) then he’ll adapt and comply! 

So remember, zero fun before 6 am.

 

Tip #9: Rule out hunger

Most parents assume their baby is hungry when they wake at night. And many times, your baby is hungry when she calls out during the night. 

But if your baby is 6 months or older (and your doctor is happy with growth and weight gain) you can consider weaning off night feeds. (Here’s my step-by-step guide on reducing and weaning night feeds.)

Older babies are able to take in all their necessary nutrition during the day. You just have to pay attention and feed your baby often. 

My simple rule is to feed your baby (milk, solids or a snack) every 2-3 hours all day long. When you focus on maximizing daytime nutrition, you can feel confident slowly weaning off night feeds. 

Think of it as redistributing your baby’s calories so that she eats more during the day, and less overnight. But she still eats the same amount in a 24-hour period.

Always check with your baby’s doctor to see if night weaning is right for your baby. And if you get the “go ahead”, start night weaning with this guide.

 

Stopping your baby’s early wakings requires that you modify his sleep environment (by adding white noise and blackout curtains.) It also involves tweaking your baby’s sleep schedule (making sure bedtime is appropriate and naps are sufficient.) You’ll also have to stop certain activities (like bed-sharing and screen time at 5 am) and start new routines (like teaching your little one to fall asleep independently.) 

Taking 1-2 weeks to start these necessary steps will result in your baby sleeping later in the morning. Who knows, you may even have to start setting your alarm clock again!

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17 Comments

  1. Samantha

    My almost 4 month old sleeps from 7:30pm-5am almost every night. Occasionally he’ll wake up in the middle of the night for a feed, but usually sleeps through. He takes 2, 2-hour naps during the day. I consider us lucky that he sleeps through the night but I think he’s waking up at 5am because of it. We treat it as a night feed/room is dark/sound machine on, etc. This all started after daylight savings. What do you recommend to get him to sleep until 6am?

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    • Micaela

      I replied you in the other comment 😉
      Micaela BSMS Support Team

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      • Samantha

        Sorry! didn’t mean to post twice!

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        • Alyssa Taft

          No problem 🙂

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  2. Samantha Funk

    My almost 4 month old sleeps from 7:30pm-5am almost every night. Occasionally he’ll wake up in the middle of the night for a feed, but usually sleeps through. He takes 2, 2-hour naps during the day. I consider us lucky that he sleeps through the night but I think he’s waking up at 5am because of it. We treat it as a night feed/room is dark/sound machine on, etc. This all started after daylight savings. What do you recommend to get him to sleep until 6am?

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  3. Marta

    Hello!

    As a new parent no one warned me about day light savings time! Now my baby is smiling up a storm at 5am so ce the clocks changed. All this advice is wonderful. I have one question. So far he has been laying in the crib with white noise unil 520 or so and then starts to complain and eventually cry. Should I just let him cry it out until 6am? Thank you in advance!

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Hello Marta!

      Thank you for your message! How old is your LO? We recommend treating all wakings before 6am as night wakings. So if you have already sleep trained your LO, use the same steps you use at the beginning of the night for your 1am or 5am wakings! 🙂 Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

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      • Marta

        He is 4 and a half months. Sleep training is still happening so he is able to self soothe only sometimes. He is waking up at 5am and calm in the crib maybe for up to 20min but then hunger gets him upset and asking for me. When this happens I can’t calm him. Should I try soothing anyway ( this would mean handing pacifier and going sh sh) to be there for him or just let him
        cry it out till 6am? This is rough!

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        • Micaela

          Hello! We usually tell our clients to wait until their babies at 5mo to start sleep training because at 4mo there is a regression that can have a strong impact on our babies’ sleep. Having said that if you have already sleep trained him when you know he is due for a feed (and since he is 4mo he still needs to feed during the night), don’t wait too long to feed him and then makes sure he is not already asleep when you place him back into the crib. Have a nice day! Micaela BSMS Support Team

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  4. Ruby

    Hi, my bubby Doesn’t want to sleep until 10pm she does often wake at 4am-5am I bring her into my bed we snuggle till 6 in the dark and then she feeds and then goes right back to sleep and wakes up between 8:30-10am I’m just wondering how to stop her waking at 4am5am iv tried settling her in her cot for hours the only way she will settle and go back to sleep is in my bed with me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    • Micaela

      Hi Ruby, I don’t know how old your baby is. If she is a newborn it’s normal for bedtime to be this late. If she is 5+mo then bedtime usually falls earlier than that. I would encourage you to subscribe here https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-moms-survival-kit to our FREE Exhausted Mom Survival Kit because it will help you understand better what you can expect from your baby (depending on her age) and also it will give you some great tips to improve your situation. Best of luck! Micaela BSMS Support Team

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  5. Georgina

    Hey
    My 9month old baby is adamant he wants to drop his afternoon nap and wakes at 1pm but then wants to go to bed at 6pm and wakes at 4am everyday!! Once he wants to go to bed there is nothing I can do.
    Should I persist with taking him for a walk or drive to get him to take an afternoon nap? I also have to drive to collect my daughter from school so that interrupts the afternoon!
    Help I’m so tired! It’s been going on for a good month!

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Hello! Check out our 9 month old sleep guide for helpful tips and awake time recommendations. Your LO could be going through a bit of a regression and fighting his nap. Be consistent! Most babies drop to 1 nap between the ages of 13-18 months (average is 15 months), so your LO is definitely still needing a morning and afternoon nap! 🙂 Let me know if you have any questions! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

      https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/9-month-old-wont-sleep

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  6. rose

    Hi,
    Loving this site!
    My baby’s wake window is about an hour and 15 minutes. He is 16 weeks old. How can I only give him up to 4 hours of naps if he has this wake window? He goes to sleep at about 8:30/9 and wakes bw 6:30 and 7 (with waking 2x to BF)

    Thanks!

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Hello Rose,

      Thanks so much for your message and congratulations on your LO! For a 4 month old, we recommend wake windows of 1.5-2.5 hours. Most babies can handle less awake time in the morning, but more awake time in the afternoon. I would try to get your LO to stay awake for 1.5 hours in the morning after wake up, and gradually try to increase the wake windows throughout the day (so not every wake window is the same). I am attaching a link to our 4 month old sleep guide to give you more helpful tips! Please let me know if you have any questions! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
      https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/4-month-old-not-sleeping

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  7. Frida

    With sleep training and ability to self-soothe, you don’t have those problems. You can choose between variety of methods from cry-it-out to hold-with-love, no matter which you will choose, your life will be much easier 🙂

    Reply

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