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Don’t Let Sleep Struggles Steal Your Joy.

Getting your kiddo to go to sleep, and stay asleep, can feel like mission impossible.

So many parents of toddlers and preschoolers have similar struggles.

  • Stalling and resisting sleep is taking up countless hours of my evening.
  • I can’t remember what a peaceful night feels like.
  • Monsters under the bed are ruining bedtime.
  • My child keeps waking up and can’t get back to sleep without me.
  • My kiddo is waking up so early and will not nap.

We know how frustrating it feels when you’re trying everything, but nothing is working.

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You Don’t Need To Stay Stuck In The Cycle Of Exhaustion.

Experience a warm approach to getting toddlers & big kids sleeping well, that parents love too.

  • Get your child to sleep at a reasonable hour, easily and consistently every night.
  • Get a calm and easy bedtime routine.
  • Get personalized support and tailored interventions.
  • Get access to sleep, lactation and mom experts.
  • Get a proven solution with an “It Works!” guarantee.
  • Get a full night’s sleep. Finally.
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"Last night was MAGIC. My daughter woke up in her own bed and was in a good mood (which almost never happens). I actually feel guilty that I waited so long to do this."

- Alecia D.

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Hi. I’m Jilly,

Founder of Baby Sleep Made Simple.

I’m a mom x  2, international sleep coach, neonatal nurse, and certified lactation consultant. When I became a mom, I knew it would be a rollercoaster, but I didn’t know I'd be exhausted all the time. Getting my kids to fall asleep and stay asleep became priority #1. I scoured the internet, I tried all the things, but nothing seemed to work for my rambunctious toddler. (Yep, he’s off the charts in persistence!)

I leaned on my experience as a pediatric nurse and lactation consultant to develop a sleep training program that actually works. It’s rooted in child developmental science and psychology and respects children’s personalities and unique spirits. That’s how Big Kid Sleep Made Simple was born. My team and I have helped more than 100,000 families find a tender solution for their children’s sleep.

Over 1 million people visit our website each year. That’s a lot of tired parents! My kids are now 9 and 4, and people still ask me “How do they sleep so well?” even through separation anxiety, bedtime fears and potty training. It’s because I have a proven plan that works even when little kids are going through big developmental changes.

No crying it out. No locked bedroom doors. No threats, punishment or yelling. It's 100% possible to get your child happily sleeping on their own in a gentle, loving way.

Praise From Happy Parents


"My 3-year-old went from sleeping on our floor to happily sleeping in her room again! And now she shares a bedroom with her baby sister."


"This program has eased and comforted my mama heart. It's transformed my son's sleep. He's no longer resisting bedtime!"


"My 2 year old would NOT go to sleep on his own. In less than a month, he was going into his bed awake cuddling his stuffed animal, falling asleep on his own and sleeping all night! It changed our lives. It's amazing!"


"My 3-year-old went from sleeping on our floor to happily sleeping in her room again! And now she shares a bedroom with her baby sister."


"This program has eased and comforted my mama heart. It's transformed my son's sleep. He's no longer resisting bedtime!"


"My 2 year old would NOT go to sleep on his own. In less than a month, he was going into his bed awake cuddling his stuffed animal, falling asleep on his own and sleeping all night! It changed our lives. It's amazing!"


Big Kid Sleep Made Simple.

For 2-6 year-olds

The proven on-demand program that gets kids sleeping independently & through the night.

(And having consistent naps or quiet time everyday.)

You get:

  • A holistic, child-centered solution that gets you quick results.
  • Proven-to-work methods that build emotional connection and a healthy, independent sleeper.
  • Short & easy-to-follow video lessons (audio version too!) and step-by-step guides that walk you through the how-to’s of sleeping through the night.
  • Practical daily schedules that fit in with your family’s busy life: suited to daycare, siblings, working parents and stay-at-home parents.
  • Live group Zoom calls, Q&A support, and community access (when you choose our Support Package.)

  • A personality assessment to see how your child’s unique traits affect their ability to relax, wind down and fall asleep.
  • Sleep training advice that is centered on loving, respectful and positive parenting tactics. No threats, punishment or locked bedroom doors!
  • A proven solution (and our guarantee) for getting your 2-6 year old sleeping easily and well.

So you feel:

  • Optimistic and excited to finally have a solution!
  • Confident your child is getting what they need.
  • Like a million bucks after a good night’s sleep, every night!
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Big Kid Sleep Made Simple



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  • On-demand video course that walks you through our proven steps for easy bedtimes, independently sleeping through the night and great naps everyday.
  • Step-by-step guides, FAQs and bite-sized videos to move through at your own pace.
  • Access to online courses never expires.


Program + Private Consultation



  • Full access to Big Kid Sleep Made Simple (never expires).
  • One 45-minute private consultation.
  • Summary email of your sleep plan & recording of your consultation.
  • Our most popular package!

Program + Support Via Email



  • Full access to Big Kid Sleep Made Simple (access never expires)
  • 3-email package with a sleep consultant for advice and troubleshooting.
  • Detailed and customized advice.
  • Expect replies within 24 hours (weekends excluded).


"I love that this program is so versatile so you can customize it to your toddler’s personality. That is truly what sets this program apart from other ones.

Not to mention the amazing support from Jilly and her team. The price you pay is 100% worth it."

- Tracey.

The #1 Worry About

Crying It Out.

Absolutely, Positively Game Changing.

Your 2-6 year old can start sleeping through the night, and consistently napping or enjoying quiet time.

Just imagine...

Stress-free bedtime

Your kiddo blows you a kiss and falls asleep without a struggle.

No more night wakings

Your child sleeps in their own bed all night. No crying, calling out or coming to your bed at 2 am.

Easy days

Your little one naps with ease or enjoys quiet time on their own.

A confidence-building plan

You’re equipped for changes like moving to a toddler bed, nighttime potty training, weaning off the pacifier, welcoming a new baby & starting preschool.

Bye bye guilt

Using a loving and child-centered plan enables your kiddo to sleep well without ignoring their needs or breaking their spirit. The best!

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"This has been a game changer!

We tried a few different sleep training programs and it just never worked. We finally started sleeping through the night after doing this program."


Is Big Kid Sleep Made Simple Right For Me?

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What age is this program for?
Big Kid Sleep Made Simple shows you how to get your 2-6 year old child happily sleeping on their own.  No threats, yelling or punishment. We use kind, loving and respectful positive parenting tactics to encourage cooperation from little kids and ensure we're meeting their emotional needs
I feel too busy right now to finish the program. How long do I have access?
You get long-term access to this online program. If you choose our support option, you have 30 days of personal support.
Side note: getting your child sleeping all night long feels like adding hours to your day. So do it!
Is this available outside the US?
YES! This online sleep training program  is available for families worldwide. You can tune in to our group Zoom calls from anywhere in the world and access the online program on-demand 24/7.
Can't attend a Zoom call? No problem, submit your questions and get personalized advice while watching the replay.
Does this include night weaning advice?
Yes. This online course shows you how to stop night feeds and get your child falling asleep on their own and sleeping all night in their bed. A reasonable expectation for 2-6 year olds.
Does this program promote Cry-it-Out?
No. We provide several different methods for you to choose from and give guidance on which method is best for your situation. It's important to know that your child may resist or fuss when making changes to their sleep routine. We all resist when having to change habits!
What makes this program so UNIQUE is it ensures you are meeting your child's emotional needs as you gently teach them self-soothing skills. We can't promise zero tears, but one method we teach is called "Minimal Tears." We show you how to slow down to minimize resistance and crying. 
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How long does it take to see results?
This depends on your child's personality and the sleep training method you choose.
My quickest method usually takes 3-5 nights to sleep through the night. My "middle of the road" methods take 5-14 nights. And my gentlest, slowest sleep training method takes a few weeks to see big results.
This is because we undo one sleep association at a time. When you are consistent with the steps of this program, you'll see BIG improvements in your child's sleep within the first week. It will feel like a miracle!
My child falls asleep on his own, but wakes up at night. Will this help?
Yes, this program covers night wakings extensively. In addition to transforming bedtime, we walk you through exactly what to do to get your child sleeping all night long.
Why is this program different?
Most other programs use one sleep training method for all children, where you leave the room and do periodic check-ins. In Big Kid Sleep Made Simple you get several different step-by-step methods and guidance on choosing the best one for your child.
Our program is the opposite of one-size fits all. We've curated methods and support to match your child's unique personality so that your solution works.
I want to stop co-sleeping, will this program help?
YES! If you currently share a bed with your child (for some or all of the night), this program guides you through getting them to happily accept sleeping in their own bed all night! (And for naps, if applicable.)
Can you guarantee this will work for me? My child is so strong-willed….
We offer a 30-Day 100% Money Back Guarantee. Here's the better news: only a small proportion of parents (3%) don't get the results they want, and often there's a consistency factor in that.
Our specialty is helping exhausted parents find a solution so that their energetic, intense, sensitive, strong-willed and determined kids learn to sleep well. Sleep training cannot be one-size-fits-all.  Each step of the way you get advice based on your child's developmental stage, unique personality traits and your parenting beliefs.

Enjoy more “nite nites” and fewer bedtime struggles starting tonight.


You may ask for a full refund within 30 days of purchase if you are unsatisfied with this program.