Sleep Training Tips for Your 6 Month Old

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  1. Carolyn Northrop

    I’ve got a 6 month old who wakes at 7a and naps every 2 hours for an hour. He is in bed and asleep by 6p-7p depending on his last nap. I only let him nap a total of 3 hours a day. But he has been waking up at 1a, 3a, or 4a and not going back to sleep for 2-3 hours for the past 2 weeks. HELP! I used all your tips with my first who has now two and sleeps like a champ, but my second is out of my league. Thank you!!!

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    • Ingrid

      Hi Carolyn! Thanks for your message. It can be so hard when a baby that used to sleep well goes to waking up consistently- it’s a struggle! Most 6-month-olds need a total of 2.5-3.5 hours of daytime sleep so perhaps he needs a little bit more? There is also a regression that takes place at 6 months, which can cause some sleep disruptions. If, after a week or so, his sleep does not improve, please check out the following program to get him back on track and sleeping like a champ! https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant

      Thank you so much, and hang in there; we’re here if you need us!

      Ingrid, BSMS Support TEam

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  2. Jillian

    My daughter will be 6 months next week. She is sleep trained and sleeps 11 hours overnight but her naps are horrific. They were always 30 minutes but once she hit 5 months they got even shorter. I put her down 1 hr 50 minutes after waking. She sucks her thumb for about 10 minutes and then it starts to fall out of her mouth. Once it falls out she jumps and wakes herself up. This repeats until she is awake but she never really gets good sleep. I’ve tried longer wake windows and it’s the same. Any idea what’s going on ?!

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    • Artemis

      Hi Jillian,

      That’s great that she sleeps well for nights. Good work!

      Naps are trickier and there could be a number of things going on there – I highly suggest you join our naps program (your little one is old enough!)

      Here it is:
      https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/naps-getting-downtime-in-the-daytime/

      You can get 15% off when you use the coupon code ‘2022’ at checkout! We’ll be happy to see you in the program.
      Artemis, BSMS Support Team

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  3. Tracy Jacobs

    Hi! Is it okay for my 6 month old to be going to sleep every night between 7:30-8:20ish then waking up at 6am for a bottle then going back to sleep for a while? Is this okay? I really do not know.

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    • Artemis

      Hi Tracy!

      At Baby Sleep Made Simple we always say: it’s not a problem, until it’s a problem. If you and your baby’s doctor are okay with the amount of night feeds your 6 month old gets, you’re good to go! Sounds like your 6 month old is getting enough sleep during the night, and they also fall asleep after the morning feed which is good.

      Sounds like you’re doing great!

      As your baby gets older though, they might need a more consistent bedtime that varies by maximum 15 minutes each night. If, in the future, your baby would have night wakings or resist sleep in any way, you may want to keep a consistent bedtime each night and start a peaceful bedtime routine. Find out how to do that in our Exhausted Mom’s Starter Kit!

      However, there’s no need to change anything right now if you’re happy with your sleep situation. Good luck!

      /Artemis, BSMS Support Team

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  4. Krista

    My baby will be six months in about 2 weeks. He has been a belly sleeper since birth basically and was sleeping through the night around 6 weeks. He co-slept for about 6-8 weeks and then started sleeping in his crib with no issues. When I went back to work around 14 weeks old – everything changed. We are now going on 3 months of almost no sleep. He is typically up every hour to hour and half. The most I ever get is 3 hours straight and that’s rare – once a week at the absolute most. My husband works nights so I’m on my own 5 nights a week. It’s getting to the point where I’m in tears because I’m just so tired and he will not stay asleep when I put him down. Sometimes I can give him the bink and he will go back to sleep. Other times he needs to be rocked. He usually wakes himself my rolling over onto his back in the crib. I feel like we have tried everything – essential oils, white noise, goat milk formula. You name it. I’m at a total loss.

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Hello Krista,

      Thank you so much for your message. Sleep deprivation is no joke–it is exhausting, especially if you are handling most of the nights yourself. I am glad that you checked out our guide since this is the first step.

      If you prefer more details and a step-by-step guide to get your LO sleeping through the night, then I highly recommend our program, 21 Days to Peace & Quiet.

      In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient.

      Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament.

      You can find out more info on the program here: https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program

      Sleep Training Methods Explained:
      https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/sleep-training-methods-baby-toddler

      When you are 100% consistent in following the steps of the program, your baby will be sleeping amazingly within 1-3 weeks. It depends on the method you choose as well as your baby’s adaptability. But we cover all of this in the program!

      Happy to answer any questions you have.
      Have a great day!
      Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

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  5. Sandra

    I liked the tip of the baby having a right place to sleep, and that it be the cradle. And especially for the time it starts rolling, it is safe and free of objects inside the crib.

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    • panagiota

      Thank you very much Sandra. Have a nice day. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

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  6. Valerie

    Hi! My daughter is 7 months and is not sleeping through the night yet. She refuses day naps and she goes a long stretch in the afternoon without napping maybe 5hrs before bedtime (7:30) she wakes up 2-3 hrs at night, she won’t be fuzzy or anything she’ll just eat and go back to sleep. The waking up so many times at this age would it be because of how long she stays awake before bedtime?

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    • panagiota

      Hi there Valerie. Sorry to hear you’re struggling. Please check out our 7 month old sleep guide here –> https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression

      This will help you understand what to expect from your LO’s sleep at this age, plus it’s got many tips on how to get her sleeping better at night.

      Also, if you haven’t already, you can sign up for our free Exhausted Mom’s Survival Kit, a step by step guide that will help you create healthy sleep habits for your baby, create a bedtime routine, set the right bedtime and help your LO sleep better day & night, overall. Here’s the link –> https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-moms-survival-kit

      Try implementing these tips for a few days and then let us know how things work out. Good luck. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

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  7. Rachel

    Exhausted twin mom! My twins are 6 months old. I have been trying to get them on schedule. During the day they nap fine (they nap in their rocking chairs) but at bedtime we struggle to get them down in their cribs. It can take us 2-3 hours for them to fall asleep. And usually I end up having to rock them. My older twin has been waking up every 2 hours crying. I just feel like we are getting no where and I don’t know what to do.

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    • panagiota

      Hi there Rachel! Congrats on your twins. Having two babies with the same needs can really be exhausting, I understand. First of all, I should tell you that for safety reasons you should ALWAYS supervise your babies’ naps while they sleep in their rocking chairs.

      Have you tried implementing the tips from this 6 month old sleep guide to your babies? If not, please try implementing them for a week. Also, you can join our free Exhausted Mom’s Survival Kit here –> https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-moms-survival-kit. It’s a step-by-step guide that will help you create a bedtime routine and help your babies sleep better day and night.

      Let us know how things work out after implementing these tips. Good luck. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

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  8. Divya

    My baby girl will turn 6 months next week. I noticed that she wanted to sleep every 2.5 hr naturally during the day and was waking up at 7 AM every morning. After reading your steps and the survival kit, I tried to follow a 6 month schedule and it was going fine till it wasn’t. There are several issues I identified:
    (A) She sometimes wakes up at 5AM, 5:30AM, 6:00AM. It’s no longer 7AM now. When she does, I have to feed her because she doesn’t go back to sleep then. Is this an early waking? This throws off the entire schedule.
    (B) We have started putting her to sleep at 7:30PM after following the bedtime routine but she wakes up before 6AM. Sometimes she wakes up at night but puts herself back to sleep after rolling over etc. She is not on solids yet and is breastfeeding exclusively so I am often afraid that she might be hungry when she wakes up at 5AM. Earlier we were putting her to sleep at 8-8:30PM and she would sleep then as well. So, I don’t know if her natural sleep time is 7:30PM, 8PM or 8:30PM. Do you have any suggestions on how to deduce that?
    (C) Feeding and going to sleep is her biggest sleep association, that’s why she needs me during the day naps and night nap to put her to sleep. Her daytime naps are very short ~ 30min and I spend 30 min trying to put her down. She wakes up as soon as I put her in her crib. Even if she sleeps, she wakes up in 30 min. It becomes difficult for me to follow any schedule in the afternoon for that reason.
    I am scared to start any sleep training method during the night because for some reason at night she puts herself back to sleep but during the day she can’t. What do you suggest, I can do?

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Thank you so much for your message! I remember how frustrating it can be when our little ones aren’t napping consistently and you can’t follow a schedule. We consider anything before 6:00AM to be treated as a night waking. For a 6 month old, it is normal for your little one to still need between 1-2 night feedings. Her bedtime seems ideal! As far, as naps, we encourage 2-4 naps for this age and an awake time between 2-3 hours. Babies can often compartmentalize naps vs. night sleep which is why she can sleep well during the night but not for naps. I would highly recommend our sleep training program. Jilly will be able to offer personalized advice to get your little one sleeping better for naps! We always recommend our babies sleep well at night before really tackling naps so I believe your daughter is off to a great start! I am attaching the link below. Please message me if you have ANY questions! 🙂 Alyssa, BSMS Support Team https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program

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  9. Amanda

    My daughter is almost 8 months old and wakes up AT LEAST every hour, but oftentimes more than that. She gets fruit with oatmeal about an hour before bed, nurses to sleep and is up and down all night. It’s better during the day. Sometimes she will nap for as long as 2 hours! I dont know what to do!

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Amanda,

      Thanks for your message and I am sorry to hear your little one has been up every hour-exhausting! Many 8 month old babies go through an 8 month regression. Regressions are a completely normal part of development, but they are exhausting since they can last between 2-6 weeks. I am attaching a link for our 8 month old sleep guide. It has some helpful tips to get your little one sleeping better. Please let me know if you have any questions! Good luck Mama! /Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

      https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/how-to-beat-the-8-month-sleep-regression

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  10. maria

    Very helpful articles, thank you so much. My baby will be 6 months in a couple of days and has started getting restless during the night after being a very good sleeper before. My best guess is that at the moment it is because she just started to roll over and learning to sit and is talking a lot more. Oh….and teething.
    She does fall asleep with a pacifier though and often wakes up because she can’t find it anymore. What is the best way to get her to sleep without her pacifier?

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Maria,

      It is very normal for our babies to get a bit restless during the night when they are learning a new skill such as rolling over or learning to sit. Continue to remain as consistent with your routines as possible and allow ample time for your daughter to practice these skills during the day! The pacifier is a tricky one. We usually say pacifiers are fine to use unless you are having to go and replace it in the middle of the night! This can be exhausting for parents. If you don’t want to keep replacing the pacifier, I would suggest removing it for sleep! It can take a few days for your little one to adjust, but then she should be able to fall asleep on her own without any aids. Good luck Mama! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

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  11. Nandy

    Hi, your guide above for 2 naps a day has a total nap time of 3.5 hrs whereas you have mentioned the total nap time should be 2-3 hrs? Is this okay because my daughter is 6 months and 1 week , takes 3 naps it totals 3.75 hours in total on most days. If she takes 3 hours she is cranky throughout the day. Night has also become a max of 3 hour stretch from 4-5 hour stretch at 5 months. Thanks.

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    • Alyssa Taft

      Hello Nandy,

      Thanks for your message! I would try to limit naps to 3.5 hours per day at this time. Since your little one is fussy right with only 3 hours, I would wait a few weeks and then slowly start to cut back naps to be a max of 3 hours per day. Your little one could be sleeping less at night because they are getting so much day sleep. When day sleep is cut back, you should see night sleep improve! Keep us posted! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

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      • Nandy

        Thank you for your reply. Baby is now 7 months and is currently going through regression I suspect. Refusing to nap, short naps, multiple wake ups at night like every 30 or 60 minutes. Exhausting right now!

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        • Alyssa Taft

          Yes it’s fine for young babies to nap a bit more. If you notice that your baby does better napping 3.75 hours, that’s fine! I suspect in about 2 months she’ll need her naps trimmed down to the 3 hours max!

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  12. Destinee

    Hi there. My daughter is 6 months and seems to have developed a separation anxiety with me… she won’t let anyone hold her, and if I walk away she starts screaming. Around when that started happening she also started waking up MULTIPLE times at night and only will sleep if she’s on my chest or I’m touching her. I am at a loss for what I can do.

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    • Leena

      Hi Destinee! Sorry to hear about your struggle! This is certainly hard for both of you, but it is usually just a phase that can be fixed with consistently implementing the tips in the guide above, teaching your LO how to fall asleep independently and lots of cuddles during the day. Check out this video on babies needing to sleep on you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJeet1wp2_0

      If you’d like detailed assistance, I would also recommend our program, 21 Days to Peace & Quiet. We offer 4 different step-by-step methods for you to choose from (from super gentle & gradual to quick & efficient.) Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament.

      You enroll on this page: https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program

      The program costs $197 now, but you should know that in just a few weeks’ time Jilly’s updated program will be out and it will have a $97 DIY option.

      Jilly is currently on maternity leave. As of October 1st she will be answering questions in our private Facebook group 2 times per week. (In the DIY option you do it all yourself. There’s no messaging option or Facebook group. BUT you get all the same information and resources and can definitely get your baby sleeping great.)

      In general, when you are 100% consistent in following the steps of the program, your baby will be sleeping great at night within 1-3 weeks. It depends on the method you choose as well as your baby’s adaptability. But we cover all of this in the program!

      I hope this isn’t too confusing. Happy to answer any questions you have about the program.

      Have a great day! / Leena, BSMS Support Team

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  13. kate t

    we are going to try all these! Allie is 6 months 1 week and defintely has a hard time going to sleep, especially when I am not home. We co-sleep and are SLOWLY transiting her out. But 1st, transition her from falling asleep while nursing in bed at bedtime. thanks!

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    • Ashley

      Hello!
      These steps have been pretty helpful so far; we just started with our almost 6mo so Im hopeful to see good change! She puts herself to sleep at bedtime and either wakes after an hour OR makes it several hours. We have 1 more bedtime to try to tweak it to perfection. My struggle is confusion in how to “treat” during the night. If she cries do we swoop her up do we pat her to sleep, do we give her paci? We have a 2yo also so cio isnt an option. My fear is doing too much for her and shes not learning to resettle on her own even though she can and does put herself to sleep at bed and naps! Help please 🙂

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      • Alyssa Taft

        Ashley,

        Thank you for your message! I am glad you are finding the steps helpful. It is wonderful that she puts herself to sleep at bedtime. This is such an important skill! Because she can fall asleep on her own without assistance, I would continue to let her do so if she wakes up in the middle of the night. If you start to introduce any other associations (paci, patting, etc.) in the middle of the night, she will need it every time she wakes up in the middle of the night. I also understand that you have to think of your 2 year old! First, I recommend you play white noise in everyone’s bedrooms all night long. White noise is proven (over & over) to help babies, kids and adults sleep better. It masks background noises from waking us. Also, explain to older siblings that they may hear their sibling in the night. Tell them she is ok, she’s just learning to sleep well.
        If sleep training wakes your two year old, go to him/her first and reassure rather than rushing to the one being sleep trained. Your child will need the space and opportunity to “fuss it out” a bit. It may be a few nights of running around, but the goal is to get everyone in the family to sleep through the night! Good luck Mama! /Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

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